Wellness Behavioral Therapy For Insomnia

You look at the clock: 2:09 a.m. You groan. You’ve been lying in bed, awake, for over three hours. You have to be up before 7 a.m., meaning you will get less than five hours of sleep— at best. You’re super stressed about falling asleep, and your mind is racing: Why does this keep happening? I’m going to feel awful tomorrow. Why won’t my body sleep?

If you’ve been having trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking up too early and can’t fall back asleep, you have insomnia. If this happens for at least three months, it’s chronic insomnia.

You may feel stuck in a pattern of sleepless nights and tired days, but chronic insomnia is treatable— though not necessarily by reaching for a sleeping pill. Wellness behavioral therapy for insomnia is the preferred first-line treatment for chronic insomnia disorder.

Changes From Wellness Behavioral Therapy

Wellness behavioral therapy empowers you to be your coach by addressing thoughts and behaviors interfering with sleep. Wellness behavioral therapy can be used with or without sleep medications, though when used on its own, you get away from medication downsides and side effects.

Of course, Wellness behavioral therapy for insomnia is no quick fix. As with anything new, it takes consistent effort and even some patience to see results. Mastering just a few Wellness behavioral therapy changes initially may be easier than trying too many all at once, which can get overwhelming and be counterproductive.

As explained in the name, Wellness behavioral therapy, one aspect of WBT focuses on changing behaviors. In the case of insomnia, this means forming routines that encourage sleep. You may already be familiar with many of these practices. They include going to bed and waking up at the same time each day, relaxing before bed, avoiding caffeine in the late afternoon and evening, and exercising regularly. You should also avoid daytime napping and get out of your bed at night if you don’t feel sleepy, which helps your mind associate your bed with sleep.

But WBT’s other focus is “cognitive”— your thinking. Positive self-talk and calming your mind are two cognitive strategies to treat your insomnia and think your way to sleep.

Positive Self-Talk (Cognitive Restructuring)

• “I know I’ll be awake for hours.”
• “If I don’t fall asleep right now, I’ll be exhausted tomorrow.”
• “At this rate, I’ll only get a couple of hours of sleep.”

These thoughts are natural but can leave you more agitated and make it even harder to sleep. If left unchecked, these thoughts can become automatic and hard to break away from. Identifying negative or irrational thoughts can be challenging. Automatic thoughts happen, well, automatically— so are difficult to control. Noticing these types of thoughts is a skill that can be learned and developed.

When you catch yourself thinking these negative thoughts, practice positive self-talk. For example, try flipping your thoughts to “I will be able to fall asleep” and “I’m still going to have the energy to have a great day tomorrow.” Relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, guided imagery, or listening to a bedtime story can also help.

Another strategy for anxious thoughts about falling asleep is to remain passively awake. This means that you get in bed and calmly try to stay awake, rather than expecting to fall asleep. This can help reduce your anxiety and worry, counterintuitively helping you fall asleep faster.

Calming Your Mind

Maybe you struggle with a different kind of anxiety at nighttime – instead of worrying about falling asleep, you start to worry about all sorts of other things: work, kids, schedules, relationships, and more. Did I send that email? How am I going to finish that project by Tuesday? Was I rude to her? My needs to finish that history project.